high school and all the bullshit that goes on before during and after it

so im sitting and i just finished watching easy A a movie that is funny but has some very sad truths to it the school that she goes to has to some how be related to mine because at my high school if you went to a party with friend and there was a guy and you stood by him then that meant some how some way you had sex with him even if you never left a crowded room  believe me it happened to me a couple times and i smoked dope got pregnant and gave hand jobs to a guy at the lunch table that was next to the table where all the teachers and the principle sat ... on a regular bases yep i was a regular walking talking skanky bad ass yep that was me and im pretty sure half if not more of the people in my school didn't know who i was till mid to end of sophomore year the only thing they knew about me was who my best friend was at school and some knew who it was out of  school but it never actually accured to any one to actually ask me if any of those things i "DID" were true and the sad part is life isn't like the movies or book or even the really good 80's movies the things you did , didn't do, or might have done only part of it  people still think you did and there's only a small chance that by the time you go to your 10 year reunion some of those same people will have grown up enough to stop giving a damn about what you did or DIDN'T do at 16 and not act like they didn't do the exact same thing but if they did do it  it was ok because they had better clothes,friends,shrink and,or plastic surgeons.any way the point to all of this is do what you want how you want and love who you want break up with them love them again and then realize their a complete lying  commitment phob ass who uses the fact that you love so easily  take time to just have fun and not care what society thinks or says and then take a chance on a guy who you would normally never think about taking a chance on and realize it was the best chance on life,and love you have made in your life and live love and learn from him your love isn't easy by any means and be the bad ass you know you can be and tell all the haters to screw off cause you know what you can follow the rules of life you know the ones that say date a good guy for a decent time move in together get engaged married house kids good job you love bigger house good car a mini van retire  travel the story book bull shit or do it all backasswords and love every minute of it . or do what ever you want with whom ever you want just enjoy it.